Spirits SIGNS & SIPS recap 2/27/25: Evidence vs Messages

Hello Beautiful Souls!

Every time I go live on Thursday mornings for Spirits SIGNS & Sips, I feel a deep sense of connection—not just with spirit but with all of you who join me on this journey of discovery and growth. Whether you're just starting your mediumship path or refining your gifts, we are all in this together, learning, laughing (Do you want fries with that?), and uncovering the deeper meanings behind the messages we receive.
In my latest live session (click here to watch), I had the joy of diving into the art of mediumship, the balance between evidence and message work, and the importance of setting clear intentions when working with spirit. If you missed it, here’s a recap of some of the most powerful insights we shared.

Welcoming the Community with Open Arms
One of my favorite parts of these live sessions is the sense of community we build. I love starting off with a simple, fun question: What are you sipping on this morning? It might seem small, but it’s a light-hearted way to bring us all together, creating a relaxed and welcoming space where everyone feels at home.
As we got started, I shared some exciting updates about upcoming appearances, spiritual development classes, and special offers for readings. I truly believe that mediumship is a lifelong journey, and I love providing opportunities for all of us to continue growing together.

The Heart of Mediumship: Evidence vs. Message Work
One of the biggest misconceptions about mediumship is that it’s all about proving that a loved one is present. Yes, evidence is important—we need to validate the connection by sharing details only the spirit and their loved ones would know. But here’s what I’ve learned:
✨ The real magic happens in the message. ✨
It’s not just about sharing facts like a name or a favorite hobby. Spirits come through because they have something meaningful to say. Their goal isn’t just to prove they still exist—it’s to bring comfort, healing, and sometimes even guidance.
When I work with spirit, I always ask: Why are you here? What do you want your loved one to know? Those answers are where the heart of mediumship truly lies.

Vocal Points: Tuning into Spirit’s Key Messages
One concept I introduced in the session was vocal points—the key themes or messages that a spirit wants to communicate. It’s easy to get caught up in listing evidence, but when we listen for the deeper meaning, the reading becomes more impactful.
Instead of just saying, Your grandmother loved to cook, I encourage mediums to go further:
🔹 What memories does this spirit want to bring up?
🔹 What emotions are attached to these details?
🔹 Is there a deeper message beyond the evidence?
Shifting focus from just proving a spirit is there to why they are coming forward transforms the entire reading.

Engaging with Spirit: Strengthening Your Connection
One of the best ways to build your connection with spirit is through practice and intention-setting. During the live, I shared a few exercises to help strengthen your abilities:
🔮 Identify Your Guides: Spend time in meditation and ask your guides to reveal themselves. Trust the impressions you receive.
🔮 Ask for Specific Insights: Instead of just waiting for spirit to speak, set an intention and ask for clarity on a particular topic.
🔮 Keep a Spirit Journal: Write down every intuitive hit, sign, or message you receive. Over time, you’ll see patterns and validations emerge.
I can’t stress enough how important it is to engage with spirit intentionally. The more effort we put into connecting, the stronger that relationship becomes.

Mediumship is a Lifelong Journey
One of the most important lessons I’ve learned in my own journey is that mediumship is never "done"—it’s an ever-evolving process. Every reading, every connection, every spiritual experience builds upon the last.
If you ever feel stuck or discouraged, keep going. I promise, spirit is always there, waiting to work with you.

Bringing Joy into Mediumship: Laughter, Music, and Spirit Signs
If you’ve been to one of my live sessions, you know I love to keep things light-hearted and fun. Yes, we’re dealing with deep and meaningful work, but that doesn’t mean we can’t enjoy the process!
🎶 I often talk about the power of music in mediumship. Have you ever had a song pop into your head out of nowhere? Pay attention! Spirit loves to use music to send messages.
💫 And let’s not forget laughter! Some of the most incredible readings I’ve ever done were filled with joy, humor, and even playful teasing from spirit. Our loved ones on the other side still have their personalities, and they love to come through in ways that remind us of their essence.

What’s Next? Let’s Keep Growing Together!
I am beyond grateful for this community and for each and every one of you who shows up to explore and expand your spiritual gifts. If you’re feeling called to deepen your practice, check out my upcoming classes, guest appearances, and opportunities to learn more.
✨ What resonated most with you from this session? Drop a comment and share your thoughts—I’d love to hear how your own journey is unfolding!

Until next time, keep shining, keep listening, and trust that spirit is always with you.

With love and light,
💜 Lorenda 
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